“Why do boys have a problem telling if they have been raped?”

When was the first time you heard the words “boys don’t cry” or “man up”? What makes up a “strong man” is socially ingrained in us at a very early age, but gender roles can sometimes create stereotypes that are unfair and inaccurate. And what happens when we don’t live up to those expectations? Can those beliefs lead to frustration, anger, and even violence? The answer is yes.

Failure to communicate?We always talk about how boys can’t communicate their feelings, but is it really just a communication problem? Has it become more socially acceptable to have a teen boy act angry than to admit he is feeling scared or sad? If you are a friend of someone who has been sexually assaulted, don’t judge or blame them, but listen to their story, offer your unconditional support and encourage them to seek help.

Where is your safe place?Nobody ever believes it can happen to them, but 58% of rape victims report being raped between the ages of 12-24. If you’ve been sexually assaulted, it’s very important to find safety and call for help as soon as possible.
RAINN 1-800-656-4673.